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You’re meant to shine, rise & thrive, so why all that resistance?

Sep 06, 2025
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Hi beautiful soul,

We all dream of expansion, of fulfillment… of rising into more truth, love, freedom and light. We all want to follow our dreams.
And yet… when the moment of ascension (or truth) comes close, many of us feel resistance, sometimes a lot of it. We shrink back, hesitate, divert, delay.

Why?

Because ascension doesn’t only lift us higher, it asks us to shed what no longer serves. And that can feel terrifying. To the nervous system, letting go of old identities, roles or protections can feel like losing safety, losing ground. The deeper self may long for liberation, but other parts of us cling to what is known, even when it hurts.

Resistance often shows up as:

  • Procrastination or distraction just as you’re about to step forward

  • Doubt and “not good enough” spirals

  • Fatigue, fogginess or even sudden illness before big breakthroughs

  • A quiet fear of being seen too brightly, or leaving others behind

The truth is: resistance is not a failure, it is a messenger. It is the part of you that once kept you safe saying: “Please don’t abandon me now.”

This is where our awareness and consciousness play such a big role. Because when you recognize these patterns as echoes of the past, parts shaped by old systems, ancestral fear or survival strategies... you realise you don’t have to give them the reins. Instead of letting them recreate the same cycles, you remember who you truly are.

It’s about releasing what has been, rising together with all parts of you and standing in your light as you move through fear and resistance. It’s about teaching your nervous system that change is actually safe, that you were always meant for your unique greatness and that your dreams were never too big.

What once felt like a wall becomes a doorway ✨

 

So if you’ve noticed yourself pulling back from your own growth, pause and honour it. Ask:
💫 What part of me is afraid of rising?
💫 What do they need to feel safe as I ascend?

Your ascension isn’t about leaving behind who you were, it’s about bringing every part of you into the light. And here’s the miracle: those resistances that once felt like blocks have been hiding your greatest gifts. You are the light and the dark and together they become magic 🌿

✨ Remember, resistance isn’t the end of the path. It’s the place where love wants to enter, creating more space and truth, so your ascension sets sail✨

So hope this inspires you to YOUR truth, presence and wholeness 💛

With pure love,
Ineke G.

P.S. As we approach the powerful 9/9 Portal Day, I want to remind you: every act of self-love, self-inquiry, and self-liberation carries massive value and potential. Why not choose it? Why not choose you? ✨ Being your true self is pure bliss in the making.

And if you feel the call to step into higher awareness and embody even more of your truth, I’d love to support you personally. You can book a Breakthrough Transformational Session with me 💛

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