🌑 Time to Go There…

The Path You Avoid Holds the Key

Beloved Soul,

There’s a place your system keeps circling around.
A conversation you postpone.
A truth you tiptoe past.
A feeling you keep busy not to feel.

And yet… the very thing you’re avoiding may be what is finally ready to move.

✨ Empowered action begins where avoidance ends.

Most of us think we’re protecting ourselves by staying away from discomfort, but in truth, we’re just prolonging the ache. We take the scenic route around our shadows, hoping to dodge pain… not realising we’ve chosen a much longer road.

Every time we turn away, life gently redirects us; through the same patterns, the same themes, the same mirrors 🫣 until we’re ready to meet what calls for love and awareness - not avoidance.

And when we finally dare to look, we often discover:
the “hungry crocodile” we feared… was only an ugly goose all along.

The moment we bring awareness where fear once ruled, we remember: it’s not danger that awaits ☯︎ it’s liberation.

💎 The Paradox of Avoidance

Whatever we try to hide, we end up creating more of.
The guilt we bury, echoes in our relationships.
The shame we suppress, shapes our choices.
The fear we flee, runs the show from the shadows.

It’s not punishment => it’s life loving you enough to bring you back into wholeness.

So when a pattern keeps returning, don’t judge it. Don't run away. Don't do the same that you always.... do! 
See it as the Universe whispering:
“Hey you...  this is ready to dissolve... Go there now”
And I promise you one thing; YOU GOT THIS! 
you've always been a lot more than you thought you were... than you've remembered you truly are 

🌬️ The Practice

Pause today and feel into your inner compass:

• Where do I feel expansive (love)?

• Where do I feel constricted (fear)?

Make decisions from expansiveness.
Notice when you shrink, hesitate or take the long way around.
That’s your soul showing you the portal...

Because paradoxically…
✨ The most graceful way is through.

🕯️ The Gift of Shadows

Your shadows aren’t wrong.
They are the hidden guardians of your greatest gifts.

Every fear you face reveals a new layer of power.
Every wound you meet with compassion becomes a doorway to deeper truth.

This is the sacred alchemy of light:
Turning the very energy that once held you captive
into the power that sets you free.

💫 A Whisper to Remember

Don’t wait until you “feel ready.”
Courage isn’t the absence of fear - it’s love moving anyway.
And each time you go there, with gentleness, not force or pointing fingers...
you reclaim a part of yourself that was waiting to come home.

It’s time to go there.
Not to fight, but to free.
Not to suffer, but to see.
Not to prove you’re strong,
but to remember ... you always were 💫

💛
In Pure Light,
Ineke