Letting Go of Control, Releasing the Old and Creating Every Moment from Pure Source
Beloved Soul,
There is a moment in every life: quiet, subtle, almost imperceptible, when something inside whispers:
You never truly HAVE anything… except love.
Not the people you tried to hold onto, not the certainty you chased, not the outcomes you labored to secure. Even the versions of yourself you once clung to… were never yours to keep.
Everything changes & everything moves...
But love.. the love you are, the love you're made of is the only constant.
The only presence that never abandons you.
The only essence that cannot be lost.
We spend so much of our lives trying to grasp what was never meant to be held. Trying to protect what was only meant to pass through. Trying to control what was designed to evolve.
And it is exhausting.
But when you stop gripping reality with fear and begin meeting it from your love, life rearranges itself with a kind of ease that feels like remembering a language your soul has always spoken.
✨ Love is not something you acquire. It’s something you return to.
Every time you soften, you come home. Every time you release, you expand. Every time you choose truth, you realign with the current of your own essence.
The moment you LET GO
There is a sacred moment when you realise:
You never truly “had” the relationship.
You never truly “had” the opportunity.
You never truly “had” the security.
What you did have was the love you brought into each of these places...
the presence, the honesty, the devotion, the light.
It was you who co-created those moments.
It was you who infused them with meaning.
And it is you who deserves to experience beauty, connection, synchronicity and joy.
But the idea that these things were “yours” or that they were supposed to stay or define your value or your well-being… that is where love bends into fear.
Because what is yours is not the form, what is yours is the essence you bring.
This is the treasure that cannot be taken from you.
This is the force through which you create worlds.
When you stop trying to hold life in place and instead hold yourself in love, your entire reality becomes fluid, luminous, alive.
Life stops being a battlefield and becomes a dance. Creation stops being hard work and becomes breath. Your path stops being something you push and becomes something you allow.
Because here is the deepest truth:
When you choose love, not as emotion, but as consciousness, creation becomes effortless. Life reorganises around your clarity and everything that is truly aligned moves toward you without force.
What happens when I surrender into the LOVE I am
When you no longer demand that life prove itself, when you stop gripping outcomes, when you release the tension around “what should be”…
You finally clear space for what can be.
Love becomes the architect.
Not the sentimental kind...
but the fierce, luminous intelligence
that birthed galaxies and beats your heart right now.
Love knows how to align your path.
Love knows how to dissolve what is false.
Love knows how to draw to you exactly what your soul is ready for.
Love knows when to close doors
and when to open new ones.
When you surrender into that, miracles stop being events and start being a way of life.
You wake up differently.
You speak differently.
You choose differently.
And the world responds differently.
Why we fear letting go
We cling because we’ve been taught that safety lies in possession.
We fear that if we don’t hold on, we will lose.
But the truth is:
You lose yourself when you hold on too tightly.
You lose your magic when you grip the old version of who you were.
You lose your peace when you force life to obey your fear.
Letting go isn’t abandonment. It’s alignment.
It’s the moment when your soul says:
“Trust me. If you surrender back into the truth of me and stop grasping, you will rise”
Your Remembering
Close your eyes.
Place your hand on your heart.
Take one slow breath in.
Feel the quiet beneath your ribs - the home you’ve been searching for everywhere else.
Now ask gently:
🍁Where am I trying to possess or hold on tight? What am I so afraid to lose? Who will I be without it?
Let the answer reveal the places you’re still gripping fear.
🍁What would shift if I chose love here instead of control? Truth instead of illusion?
Let your body tell you... not your mind. Let your higher self show you...
🍁 What opens when I trust the intelligence of release?
Notice the softening, the expansion, the truth rising like light.
Now imagine this:
Every time you release a grip, your wings expand.
Every time you let go, your frequency rises.
Every time you surrender, your life reorders itself in ways you could never have designed.
This is not loss - It is liberation and the time has come for you to take this leap...
Your True Love Transmission
You were never meant to hold life, like the trees let go of their colourful leaves... You were meant to meet it...
Not with fear, not with control, but with love, the light you're made off and the only thing you have ever truly owned.
When you live from this place, you create from purity, from presence, from truth... From the vast cosmic intelligence that lives inside you.
Choose to reconnect to that love, again and again and watch your life unfold with the grace of someone finally aligned with their own soul.
Because the moment you remember - that you are love…
is the moment your entire life begins anew.
💛
In Pure Light,
Ineke
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