The Deepest Inner Split
Divine Feminine ♾ Divine Masculine: the reunion that ends the war
Beautiful Soul,
How is the beginning of this New Year landing for you?
How are you feeling… and how are you really doing?
Are you noticing an inner threshold, the subtle space of divergence between your heart’s guidance and the survival strategies shaping your daily choices?
One of the most exhausting battles a human can live…
is not the one happening in the world. It’s this one happening inside.
It’s the quiet war between two forces that were never meant to be enemies:
The Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine.
Divine energies that form the living architecture of wholeness.
And when they’re split, everything becomes distorted:
We do without direction...
We feel without safety...
We push without pleasure...
We long without receiving...
We know truth… but we don’t live it.
How the split shows up
The split often looks like this:
You’re “doing” all day... but the action that matters doesn’t happen.
You’re “giving” endlessly... but receiving feels like danger.
Your mind works overtime... but your heart feels shut behind a wall.
You feel anger... but it doesn’t lead to liberation, it leads to bracing.
And underneath all of it is usually one root sentence:
“It’s not safe to let go” (We can't forgive what happened)
So the masculine becomes a soldier.
And the feminine becomes an outcast.
One pushes forward, sometimes even violently, without checking direction.
The other holds truth, desire and sensitivity… but learns it will be punished if it shines freely.
The ancient distortion
This is where the deepest heartbreak lives:
The feminine was conditioned to believe:
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pleasure is wrong
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desire is dangerous
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receiving is weakness
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softness must submit
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being a woman is sinful or inferior
And the masculine was conditioned to believe:
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control equals safety
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strength equals dominance
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action equals worth
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emotion equals threat
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tenderness equals failure
So both become imprisoned... just in different ways.
One externally contained. One internally controlled.
And then… they blame each other.
The feminine says: “You took my power.”
The masculine says: “You’re the threat.”
And the inner war stabilises.
Opposition becomes the way the system organises itself and separation takes root.
The real tragedy
They were never meant to be separate.
But when the remembrance of their unity was lost, each began to function alone. They lost the lived memory of their belonging.
This forgetting did not happen by accident. It was conditioned, reinforced, and normalised, so that our deepest knowing and natural power would be redirected into survival rather than embodiment.
And without that remembrance, they could no longer recognise that they cannot thrive without each other.
The feminine carrying desire and direction.
The masculine carrying structure and strength.
Without the feminine, the masculine moves blindly.
Without the masculine, the feminine remains yearning with nowhere to land.
This is the split between heart and mind.
The mind can be programmed from within.
The heart can be contained, stopped, punished... but it cannot be truly owned.
So the system tries to dominate the heart… and the heart protects itself by closing.
And then we call it “life”

How reunion begins
Reunion does not begin by “becoming more feminine” or “becoming more masculine.”
It begins the moment you stop taking sides inside yourself.
The moment you can say:
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I won’t abandon the feminine in me anymore.
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I won’t demonize the masculine in me anymore.
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I will welcome & witness both from my True Self.
Because the truth is:
you are already the harmony and the divine balance
When you come into presence... real presence... something dissolves:
Not through force... but through seeing with the eyes of unconditional love.
Not through fixing... but through integrating what was once separated.
The embodied pathway
Here is what I invite you to feel in your body:
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Let the feminine return as safety.
Not performance. Not sweetness.
Safety for sensation. Safety for pleasure. Safety for receiving. -
Let the masculine return as devotion.
Not control. Not aggression.
Devotion to truth. Devotion to right direction. Devotion to sacred action. -
Let your True Self become the authority.
Not your trauma patterns.
Not your ancestral programming.
Not the old war (within or without).
And when the reunion begins, life force returns.
Your natural magic is revealed and your highest potential comes back online... from within.
This is not something to push.
It’s something to allow; in your own rhythm, in safety, maybe even in a held container.
And when your True Self leads, everything is held in the highest frequency; clarity returns and the next step becomes simple.
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The symbol of the healed union
When these energies come back online, they don’t become “nice”
They become alive.
They become power-with-love.
They become the dance of creation:
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the purity that creates peace
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the depth that knows boundaries
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the pleasure that doesn’t abandon itself
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the strength that doesn’t dominate
Not war.
Not submission.
Not control.
Coherence.
And from coherence… your life becomes simpler. Clearer. Truer.
Because you’re no longer split in two.
You’re one.
The energy of the year: divine timing for embodiment
Something is shifting collectively, are you feeling it too?
This year carries an unmistakable frequency: embodiment is no longer optional.
We are ready to embody our “understanding”
We are invited to embody all the “processing”
We are called to embody “the healing”
A sacred, grounded invitation to end the inner split, so truth can live in your nervous system, your choices, your relationships, your work.
This is divine timing ♾
There has been a magical alignment with a hidden healing village, a place that holds and amplifies this work with remarkable clarity.
And for a moment, imagine this:
Six days and five nights, held in pure truth.
Where your entire system experiences what embodiment actually feels like.
Where powerful, grounded processes gently free the remaining inner splits.
Where you no longer try to know who you are...
you know, from deep within.
Imagine how that would shift your reality.
How it would ripple through every area of your life.
How differently you would meet the world from there.
Your body is calling...
Your life is calling...
Your purpose is calling!
Your True Nature and your True Self are asking to be lived.
And the ones who feel it… already know.
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https://www.inpurelight.com/retreatintoyourtruthsoon
The circle is intentionally small, to honour depth, presence and true integration.
With love,
Ineke đź’›
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